Posts by Rebekah Holmes

Often, to me, it feels like raising children can be likened to playing a long game. Solid parenting seems to be an exhausting process of doing “all the right things” and then having hope that we will see the fruits of our many labored years down the road. Sure, there are hints along the path that we’re heading in the right direction. Although, it will be decades before we really know if all of the encouragement, guiding, talking, showing, loving and repeating things ad nauseam (“hands are not for hitting!”)…

About two weeks ago, we were driving home from somewhere, and Benson realized that his birthday is quickly approaching. His first question was, “Where should I have my party?” I answered by asking where did he think would be a good place for a party? He thought on it and suggested a local trampoline park and and then suggested that it be a Minecraft party. I tentatively said ok. Then I started doing the thing every autism parent knows all too well…the strategizing, the figuring out how to adapt or…