Celebrating Unique Paths

I’ve envisioned this moment many times over the years. What it would feel like to experience the high school graduation of my youngest child, Kendall, having not had the opportunity to enjoy this same moment with her older brother, Skyler two years earlier. Would I be overly emotional at the ceremony? Proud and elated for Kendall but at the same time sad knowing that Skyler will never walk across a stage to receive his diploma. I thought maybe I should hold back a little of my outward expressions of excitement…

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In a Blink you are a Senior

In a blink, seventeen years have come and gone so quickly.  This year is your senior year and I couldn’t be more proud.  You are happy and finding your way.  You have friends, are learning skills to work and even talk about living with friends, not to mention you talk nonstop.  It brings me to tears for more reasons than one. Those earlier years were so tough.  You couldn’t talk until you were seven, but now I swear you make up for lost time.  Time seemed to go by so…

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No One Tells You

A first child turning 18 is an exciting time in a parent’s life, right? A time when the child you grew within you reaches the age of legal adulthood. It seems like those 18 years went by in a blink of an eye. A child you raised, guided, and encouraged throughout their childhood actually turned out pretty darn awesome. Your role in their life is different now. The little birdie is getting ready to leave the nest. They are preparing to go out on their own and conquer the world.…

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A Letter to my Son, High School Graduate of the Class of 2019

Dear Sean, Congratulations! You did it! My heart is filled with pride and happiness over all you have achieved and the amazing young man that you have become. Reflecting back as I look through old pictures and letters I have saved for you, brings back so many amazing memories I remember how you knew the names of all the Thomas trains and played with them for hours on end. You even took your favorite train to sleep every night! I remember the elaborate hot wheels tracks that you and your…

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Dear Teacher, From, Your Forgotten Student

Dear Teacher, My son was the one you forgot to acknowledge at the concert last night.  You said such nice things about all the other seniors that are graduating. You knew where they were going to college and had at least one personal thing to say about them. It was a really nice tribute. Many of these young adults will be going to Ivy League schools.  I’m willing to bet that most of these students are top students with high academic marks.  I’m fairly certain that these same students have…

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