Our Autism Guide for a Happy Holiday

This time of year, with all of the holidays, is probably one of the toughest times of the year.  The frequent change in routine, small bouts of travel, spending hours at a time at other people’s homes (even if it’s a familiar home, like a grandparent’s), change in diet, increase in sugary treats, large groups of people, loud crowds/music, can be overwhelming for Charlie. So for our family and friends, here’s our holiday guide to Autism. Charlie thrives on routine.  The hectic holiday schedule can get to be a bit…

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Lessons From A Crisis Schooling Mom

In this time of great uncertainty during the Covid-19 pandemic people are forced to educate their children from home.  Some are calling this homeschooling, but in reality, this is crisis schooling.  Homeschooling would look much different.  Crisis schooling is what we have been thrown into without a choice and forced to figure it out along the way.  Some may be enjoying it.  Others may be enduring or just getting by.  I think we are somewhere in-between.  Both Tyler and I are considered essential employees at our jobs.  I’m lucky enough…

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Never, Ever Give Up

Dear Autism Moms and Dads, We’re not so different, you and I.  I imagine our days are filled with similar struggles, similar frustrations, similar fears.  Sure, our kiddos might have different diagnosis or fall in different areas on the autism spectrum, but at the end of the day we can relate to one another more so than a lot of other parents can.  With that being said, from one autism parent to another, I hope you can take this message to heart; never ever give up.  You see, my husband…

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The Inner Workings of an Autism Parent’s Mind

There’s probably quite a few things we, as an autism family, do that seem completely typical to us, but totally out of the norm for other families. And we haven’t realized these things aren’t typical until others have pointed them out to us. Here are a few points we’ve learned aren’t typical for most families but are vital for ours: Always on the defense In our house, we are always on the defense. We’re always waiting for the next “thing” to happen. The next meltdown, the next dysregulation, the next…

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They Say it Takes a Village

They say that it takes a village to raise a child. I have wondered where you get this village. When my son was first diagnosed with autism I did not want to tell anyone. I knew that he would beat the odds and recover from autism. Maybe it was ignorance, denial, or wishful thinking. I thought that if I worked with him hard enough, provided him enough ABA therapy, changed his diet, gave him supplements he would return to the little boy that he had been before his regression. But…

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