October 25, 2022
Open Hearts for Halloween
It’s that time of the year again, friends.
And I’ve got a lot of feelings.
This Halloween, please acknowledge and keep in mind that not all individuals will “look the part” that you’ve dreamt up, fall under the imaginary age bar that you’ve set, or ask verbally for their treat.
They’re not lazy.
They’re not ”spoiled”.
They’re not ”ungrateful.
They may be overstimulated.
They may have sensory issues.
They may not communicate with words.
Eye contact may turn them inside out.
They may be learning how this holiday will look for them.
Remind those around you that some kids may no longer look like a child on the outside, but still hold the heart of one on the inside.
Be aware that some may carry a colorful pumpkin, attempting to signal a number of things, like developmental disorders, autism, allergies, etc… and some may not.
It is their choice to do so, but not owed.
You don’t need a colorful pumpkin present to have compassion and show kindness.
If it’s given to all, and inclusivity is a priority, then you’re doing it right, friend.
It is not our children’s job to cater to us on these holidays. Their only job is to be a kid for as long as this world allows.
Let them be who they are.
No matter the age, costume (or lack thereof), sign, device, mobility, or understanding, our loved ones should be allowed to participate, like anyone else.
Our home will have open hearts to all.
And I pray that we find the same.
