The Beautiful Gift of Life

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We just had one of those great nights. One where you realize what a gift life is.

We laughed and giggled on our walk. There was running and teasing and stolen hugs and kisses.

There was life. So much beautiful life that I had to pause and say thank you.

My oldest son asked for a birthday party and to see a blue whale. All without words.

My second oldest rode his dirt bike and climbed trees and tried to convince me that he’s going to be 10 instead of 9 in January. And all I could think is…it’s going to fast. I need time to slow down.

My youngest son, my sunshine boy, trailed after his brother as fast as he could and mimicked every word out of his mouth. And he asked me to not turn the dark on because he wanted to keep playing. I blinked and he’s almost 3. He wants to be bigger so badly.

I got to smell my sweet daughter’s head and kiss her fuzzy duck hair. And she coo’d and smiled the whole entire time. And I willed her stay small for as long as possible.

It was a good night. A joyful night. The kind that keeps us going to baths and homework and bedtime.

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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