30 Reasons I’m Grateful I Get to Parent a Child with a Disability
* Because there’s a fierceness in my heart that wasn’t there before.
* They’ve taught me what relentless love looks like.
* They’ve introduced me to an amazing community of moms and dads who are tender fighters.
* They rescued me from a pointless path to pursuing perfection.
* They’ve taught me speed isn’t everything.
* They’ve taught me to speak up.
* Because they give the best hugs.
* Through them, I’ve experienced what pure joy is.
* They’ve shown me the value in being different.
* Because of them, I’m learning the language of advocacy.
* They’ve broadened my perspective.
* They’ve broken down my sense of entitlement.
* They remind me to not take things for granted.
* They show me the value of hard work.
* Because of them, I pay more attention to the whole world, not just the part of the world who looks, lives, and believes as I do.
* Because they have the sweetest dance moves.
* Because they’ve inspired me to be more involved in the world.
* Because they love hard and teach me to do the same.
* Because they’ve given me a new purpose.
* They are my ultimate teacher in affection.
* They inspire me to do hard things.
* Because their silliness lights up my world and encourages me to be silly too.
* They’ve taught me the importance and power of words.
* They’ve made me more aware of injustices and push me to act.
* Because they’ve taught me the importance of taking life one step at a time.
* Because they bring me back when to shore when I get tangled in the waves of fear.
* Because there’s a bit of magic embedded in that unique DNA and I get a front row seat to the show every day.
* I’ve witnessed them soften the hardest of hearts.
* Because they stretch me in ways no one else can.
* They’ve helped me find who I was always meant to be.
* Because when I found out about their diagnosis, I prayed for healing, but they made me realize I was the one in need of healing.
Yes, I am grateful I have a child with a disability.
It’s an adventure I never knew I wanted, and I’m so grateful for the ride.
Written by, Jillian Benfield
Jillian Benfield is author of the free e-book 5 Spiritual Comforts for Special Needs Parents. You can find her writings at JillianBenfield.com, Facebook and Instagram.
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