My Autistic Son Learning to Spell

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Two months ago I knew that my son knew all of his letters. I knew he loved the alphabet with a passion. But I didn’t know what else to do with it. He struggled to pay attention. To focus. To sit and learn. He showed no desire to read or write. But, and there is always a but in our world, I started imagining a world where he could type to me and have a conversation through text. What would he say to me if he could?

And before I knew it, I was energized to teach him. I brought in his ABA team too and asked for sight words to be a goal. In just a few short months Cooper is spelling. He can spell mom, dad, dog, cat, ball and many more. He can also identify hundreds of words.

Here is a video of him spelling a few words and trying a few new ones. I like to share these videos because you can see how happy he is. You can see how wiggly and active he is. And you can see how quickly he loses focus. But, we set a timer, pick a spot in the house, and work on it every single night.

There is nothing more that I want in this world than for my son to communicate with me. I’ve learned as Cooper’s gotten older that it doesn’t have to be through verbal communication. Change your picture of the future friends. It can still be okay. Just look at us. We are still smiling.

Cooper is using Proloquo2Go on his iPad from Talk To Me Technologies.

https://youtu.be/TdU1w4XWcW8

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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  1. Lindsey on March 28, 2018 at 10:28 pm

    Wonderful!! Go Cooper!!