Nonspeaking Communication Can Be So Beautiful
I have a beautiful moment to share with you…
This morning, when I came out of my bedroom, far earlier than I would have liked, I knew my Cooper was waiting on the stairs for me.
For one I could hear train whistles and happy music. And secondly, lately, he’s been waiting for me more.
Near, but far.
Not close enough to touch, but easily heard and seen if I peek around a corner or under a table.
He gasped as he usually does when it’s been a period of time since he’s last seen me. As if it’s been months and not just a few short hours.
This kid often gets his nights and days a bit confused, so it was no surprise when I led him back to bed at 1 am this morning. We often meet in the middle of the night.
But now, daytime. The sun soon to rise.
He stood as I neared him. I noted his height immediately. He seemed like he got taller overnight.
He smiled. Leaned his head onto my shoulder, and touched my cheek with one hand, telling me nonverbally to stop. To pause.
He had something to tell me. This is how he communicates with me. When it’s important, he touches me gently. Either on my arm or cheek.
He is Cooper. He is uniquely himself. He is exactly who he is supposed to be.
And then I heard it.
Baby Bop singing from his iPad.
And then he smiled.
Communication can be so beautiful. Even when it’s not words.
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I love this. My Hutch is non-verbal and I love the way he communicates with me. Surrounded with love.