I Refused to Miss This

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Sometimes I miss things. Not on purpose by any means. I just have to make choices.

When you have four kids, well there is a lot going on.

Someone always has a game or practice.

Or the sniffles.

A trip to the grocery store is always necessary.

Or more recently, an aging parent.

My husband and I split up. Dividing and conquering.

I go to the doctor and he goes to practice. He goes to one conference and I go to the other.

And well I miss a game. Or a practice. Or a therapy session.

But not tonight. I triple made sure I could be here.

My 8 year old Sawyer skating with the varsity hockey team. A vision of what’s to come.

I blinked and we are here. Halfway to 18.

This was a game I refused to miss.

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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