Today Was A Good Day

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Many of you have reached out and asked how Cooper is doing. Thank you!

He is amazing. He is struggling but he’s coming out the other side and that is what matters. He works hard to be in a world that doesn’t always understand him or make sense to him. And that’s amazing.

The last two weeks have been all hands on deck. But the last two days have been happier for him. And that’s what matters.

Today was a good day.

Today he snuggled with his grandma and watched trains.

He played with the hose and sprayed his brothers.

He asked me with his talker when Santa is coming. When I said not until Christmas he persuaded me to put a sooner ‘present day’ on the dry erase calendar. Well played.

He tried a piece of ham for the first time!

He asked with his talker to go to the train museum and when I told him it’s not open until Saturday, he went and put his mask on. Smarty! How’s that for adaptation?!

He sat safely in the driveway.

He didn’t have any skin picking today. (Skin picking is a big concern right now and we are monitoring closely.)

His dad and I would give anything to snap our fingers and help him with his anxiety but life doesn’t work like that. So we just keep trying to help him. We will never give up.

Thank you to each and everyone of you who said a prayer or sent good juju his way. It’s working. He is happy.

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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