It Took a Baby…
For the last three years, Sawyer and I watch a movie on Friday nights. We eat popcorn with way too much ranch seasoning, snuggle up with blankets, argue over what movie to watch, and talk about his day, farts, Nerf guns and hockey. It’s my favorite part of the week.
And for the last three years, Cooper has ALWAYS been encouraged to join us. He rarely ever does though. He likes to wander around, move from room to room, watch his shows, line up his treasures and stim.
That is how he relaxes after a long week. It looks different than most. And that’s just fine. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t miss him.
Since Harbor has been born, Cooper has slowly, slowly been joining us on Friday nights.
At first he’d wander through the living room. Then he’d sit on the opposite couch. Then the couch we were on. And eventually right in the mix.
It took years and a new baby brother to bring him closer to his family.
One of the most important lessons I’ve learned on this journey is to be patient. I used to think we were running out of time for him to join us. I’d always feel that way. Frantic.
I know now…we have nothing but time.
These are the moments I prayed for.
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