A Message From a Self Advocate

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Since it’s Autism Awareness month, my daughter Alexa wanted to share something with you. Here is a little background on my beautiful daughter. 

At 6 yrs old, Alexa was diagnosed with Autism. Everything suddenly made sense! All the quirks, the struggles, sensory issues, etc… It wasn’t just the apraxia of speech. Now our goal became two fold; 1) to provide her with all the support she needs and 2) to help her love and embrace her differences and to be proud of them.

At first, every time we would talk to her about her having autism, she would say “I have apraxia. Greyson has autism.” Greyson is her 5 yr old brother who was diagnosed at 2 ½ yrs old with autism. She liked that they each had something to call their own. It was kind of cute! I didn’t want to push it, so gently every now and then we’d talk about it.

Plus, I also think that because her brother has more significant challenges that she automatically thought it didn’t make sense because she’s different than him.  Over time, she’s really started to see that autism “looks” different on everyone. 

I think this video is AMAZING for so many reasons. Not only has she conquered apraxia, but she is embracing her differences. She understands why she struggles with some things. But she knows that she’s not less than others who do not have autism. She is also spreading awareness! Who better to do it than her?!

I’m SO beyond proud to be her Mommy and want to shout it from the mountain because she has come so far!

She is so strong and so amazing! 

https://www.facebook.com/tara.surowiec/videos/10157385321399691/

This video was shared by Alexa and her mother Tara. Enjoy!

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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