Teaching Play To Children With Autism

At age seven my son has very few play skills and no imaginative play. This means keeping him entertained without technology is a real challenge. What I wouldn’t give to be able to say to my son, ‘go play.’ Right now that phrase doesn’t make sense to him. He needs to be taught the skills first.

For years we have worked on puzzles and anything alphabet related. But both of those types of play meant that I was sitting next to him and engaging with him. I had hoped by now he would be able to play with his brother or other kids. No go yet. Play is the one area where he really hasn’t made much progress. For example, he loves all things trains, Thomas the Train and Chugginton. But, he would never pick up a train and play with it. He wouldn’t even notice a toy Thomas or Chuggington.

But we aren’t giving up! Cooper is silly, funny, physical and loves praise. He has the love of play inside of him. We just have to figure out how to get it out.

I would love if Cooper learned how to play. And I would really love if Cooper learned how to interact with his brother.

These are lofty goals.

I’ve learned over the years, after beating my head against a wall, that Cooper needs physical activity, excitement, noise and fun. He isn’t going to sit and quietly ‘play’ with a train track.

Here is an example of a game that my boys play together. Although Sawyer is two years younger than his brother he is still an incredibly good teacher.

Cooper’s speech device has been loaded with common phrases for play. ‘Will you play with me?’ ‘Your turn.’ ‘Good game.’ I encourage him to communicate and take turns. Sawyer is so excited to have Cooper play with him.

Ultra Dash
This game is super physical and works on colors, coordination and speed. I highly recommend this one.
Link to Buy: Ultra Dash

https://youtu.be/fC5mEGnVVHg

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