Tubes Changed Cooper's Life

946365_671757302834733_557267834_nSo I’ll tell you a few things before I talk about the hearing aids. Cooper came out of surgery mad as hell. Gosh that kid is a fighter. He had an IV and was super distraught. We literally took his gown off, threw a t-shirt on him and took him home. We wanted to be home. We were tired. And overhwhelemed. And so freaking scared that we couldn’t think.

On the ride home I kept saying, “he’s going to get teased. I’m not doing it. I’m not putting him in hearing aids. I won’t. I can’t. It shouldn’t be like this. Why is it so hard.”

My husband kept trying to be logical. He’s a fixer. “Kate, he can’t hear. This will get him talking. It’s going to be fine. I promise.”

When we got home Cooper went right to sleep. And slept 6 hours. (Remember, this is the kid that wasn’t sleeping.) When he woke up, he walked into the living room and went right to his toy box. He bent over it and pulled out his toys. And sat down and played. He played for the first time in months. Cars and trucks and books.

I can’t even begin to tell you what that meant to me. He wasn’t in pain anymore. He was rested. He wanted to play.  And I wanted to play with him. We spent the afternoon laughing. I think I hugged and kissed him 5000 times in the next few hours.

I just kept looking at him and thinking your life is going to be so much harder sweet boy. But I will be here for you. I will fight for you.

Cooper went to sleep that night and slept through the night for the first time in months. He woke up rested and ate a big breakfast. One word. Relief.

 

 

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Kate Swenson

Kate Swenson lives in Minnesota with her husband Jamie, and four children, Cooper, Sawyer, Harbor and Wynnie. Kate launched Finding Cooper's Voice from her couch while her now 11-year-old son Cooper was being diagnosed with autism. Back then it was a place to write. Today it is a living, thriving community of people who want to not only advocate for autism, but also make the world a better place for individuals with disabilities and their families. Her first book, Forever Boy, will be released, April 5, 2022.

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  1. vegandee on December 2, 2013 at 5:15 pm

    You are a wonderful Mom!!



    • Avatar photo findingcoopersvoice on December 2, 2013 at 5:20 pm

      You just brought a huge smile to my face!! Thank you!!



      • vegandee on December 3, 2013 at 12:53 am

        On edit….I should have also said “courageous.” Thank you for sharing your story.