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  • Walking Through The Storm Alone

    So there is a big story in the news right now about the mom who tried to kill her autistic daughter. You can read the store HERE. I have been… Read More

  • Tricking Dr. Google

    I was chatting with a wonderful mom over at My Yellow Brick Road the other day about our autistic boys. Facebook messaging with her is so amazing for me. I can be… Read More

  • Waiting Around for Something to Change

    Meal time has changed. It used to be the most dreaded part of our day. Not anymore! I don’t know what did it but Cooper is eating great, not throwing… Read More

  • The Difference a Year Makes

    On Sunday we brought Cooper to see Thomas the Train. Good old Thomas makes a trip to Duluth once a year and it’s a huge day in Cooper’s world. It’s… Read More

  • A Therapy Break

    Cooper got kicked out of therapy. Yup, you read that right. I can spin this two ways for you. First, Cooper’s speech therapist decided that it would be best for… Read More

  • Walking the Fine Line of Hope and Giving Up

    When Cooper was little and his quirks were just starting to show I silently blamed myself. I’d tell people I didn’t but I really did. I never believed the whole… Read More

  • Describing how Autism Affects our Family…in 4 Sentences or Less.

    I have been working on this TEFRA paperwork for the last couple of days and there are a few questions that just suck. I am so sick of answering stuff… Read More

  • Autism Tricked Me

    Prior to Cooper, and even up until a few months ago, I had very specific thoughts about autism. I am pretty sure I was using information from TV shows or… Read More

  • Be a Warrier, Not a Worrier.

    I typically avoid all situations where I will get sad about Cooper’s differences. At this stage in the process it’s a must  for this mama.  This typically includes any events or… Read More

  • I'm Sick of Autism Now

    I spend a lot of time trying to decipher between what’s normal boy behavior, what’s normal 3 year old behavior and what’s autism. I sorta have this need to know… Read More

  • What it Means to be a Special Needs Mom….

    Morning all, I had to share this. Kristi Rieger Campbell reading “What it Means to be a Special Needs Mom.” This is the BEST description I have ever heard about… Read More

  • The Diagnosis Post

    I made an appointment at Fraser, an Autism clinic a little over 4 months ago. It is the best place in the state of Minnesota for diagnosing Autism. When I… Read More

  • Subtle Improvements

    I’ve noticed that when I get sad about something Cooper related I will miss things. Subtle improvements. I feel like my Cooper emotions are on a cycle. Something will make… Read More

  • Stressors in the Home

    One of the first things I bought Cooper was a pair of sweatpants from the Gap. I bought them on clearance when I was pregnant with him right after I found out… Read More

  • The Frantic Sweat

    It happened again this weekend. The frantic sweating. And I know every single mom out there with a kiddo like Cooper can relate. Cooper and I spent a lot of time… Read More

  • An Unlikely Critic

    I got really mad at a little girl this weekend. As I write that sentence I realize that you will probably think I’m crazy. And I even made fun of… Read More

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